One day at a time....

[pearlharbr]

Rocked, good for you for not letting H's moods bring you down.

It's been one of the best lessons I've learned. BF will get into a snit but, of course, doesn't want to talk about it. In the past I would poke and prod until he finally said something or just let his mood turn my mood foul also. But these days I ask once if something is wrong. If he doesn't answer then I go about my merry way because it is his responsibility to deal with his own emotions.

As for finances, I think a lot of us struggle with putting them back on track after an affair/separation/etc. I know when BF had his own apt we had a finance discussion and he said he was going into the red every month (he is the sole income) but it is what it is. I think your approach is good: make a plan to improve the sitch and not dwell on the negatives.

Hope you're having a good Sunday! We're watching football all day then I'm watching the Golden Globes tonight.