What can I do to save my marriage? Help

[Sleepy]

I just got a text from her with her time for the race. That was it. I had just finished with a C Section and called her right away to discuss her time and congratulate her. She didn't answer her phone. This is the only contact she has initiated the entire weekend.

I sincerely want to believe her but, I have the same feelings all of you do. I can't deny it. My counselor told me to get a PI, and it would have cost me 2 grand or so. I want so much to trust her, but based on her lack of contact and indifference. I don't know what to think.

I asked you guys weeks ago about this trip and you all recommended that she go. I would have pressed to stop it otherwise.

If I found out this was true, she would be out on her ass without anything. If she files, she will be out on her ass too. I won't tolerate this.

Let me know how I should handle this from here on out. I am going to stay detached but just do kind things now and then. I am on call and most likely will be off tomorrow. The kids are off too, she will be working.

The lack of contact on her part really hurts. I thought if she was having an affair she would contact more to hide the issue. I would do that if it were me.

What do you all think?