Haven't posted in a while thought I would just post a little something...Not much new still trying to get all the property settlement stuff worked out on the D, nothing either side is holding up or being vindictive just crap that's happening...

One weird thing the last two weeks the ex seems to be talking to me a lot more, we always talked but not usually more than a few minutes here and there...

I'm not sure why but I sent her the following text:

Going to take kids bowling dinner then home if ok...You're welcome to join.

I used to invite her all the time when we were "just" S to do stuff and 95% of the time she said no and I haven't invited her for months and months...I get a text back "where and what time" was expecting something like too many things to do,ect.

She called me right away also so I told her our plans and she's coming, I'm like ok, thinking wtf...You haven't wanted to do anything with us for years but now? Oh well we all like bowling so it should be fun.

Still not sure what made me invite her in the first place...


Me:40
W: 39
T: 17 years
M: 15 years
S-9
D-6
D final 11/10/2009

"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."