You are making some great changes GW! Just don't forget when you do talk, especially when you see her tonight... be upbeat! Otherwise your 180 behaviors appear to be punishing, uncaring etc. The changes in communication need to be because of your full, busy, great life! You are a confident man, a great dad, someone who can be fulfilled with or without her, and that needs to come across to her. That will make her second guess if she wants to lose you. Plus, it is good for YOU. Don't lose sight of this.