Your wife met someone in Phoenix. Don't be so silly and naieve here. Quit trying to ignore the elephant in the living room..
Women don't go on vacations by themselves like this... If someone comes into your office as a patient and has a growth or tumor the size of a grapefruit protruding out of their neck and tell you it is just swollen a bit, do you allow them to self diagnose or do you tell them the truth? Do you allow them to think what they want to believe so they won't be hurt by facing the facts? Same thing here for you. This isn't just swollen, this is an affair happening.
You need to CALL her out on this behavior. Makes her view you as weak when you allow it and act like the "supporting" husband..... notes in her luggage, have a good time... YUK..
come on man.. WISE UP HERE... FACT the TRUTH.. She went to Phoenix for a rendevous.. This is what people do when in an affair..
