Hello there John,

Great to see you still writing here but sad to see your wife's antics haven't changed.

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I have lived up to my end of the bargain and when I held her feet to the fire regarding counseling(which she agreed too), she wants a divorce again.


Sounds to me like a long of hot gas, like a knee jerk reaction because in doing what needs to be done to fix things, she will have to confront many nasty demons which occasioned her behaviour in the first place. And that scares the crap out of her.

and then this:

John,

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I want my family back. I will do whatever it takes.


See?

Body of a grown woman (like my wife) but some skills required to cope with life remain unlearned. I wish you the very best my friend. BTW, my wife had our first child last month and I'm organising a paternity test this week. Always better to know than to believe.


Me: 46
W: 46
T: 23
M: 20
DS12
DD11
DS5

W left: 01/28/08
Discovered OM: 02/26/08
W back for 9 days: 04/08
W returned 05/21/08
EA/PA - 01/08-07/09
W's MLC 2008-2014 (realised this much later)