Well done GW the pennies are starting to drop into place! It starts to feels so much better when you get a handle on controlling yourself and your emotions. Basically you no longer panda to her needs or wants you sort what you want out first and then the girls and then the dog. If and when she takes up her rightful place as W and mother then she gets her priority rating changed.
Hope you get the dog sorted out soon, see if you can get him some Cortaflex HA Suppliment for dogs its excellant stuff I use it for me (sacro injury) and a lot of my friends horses use it!
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Once lost but now found and happily married again!