Of course you were in a funk - be gentle with yourself. First H's insensitive comment, now the return of the OW - it touches on the traumas you have experienced. Piecing is hard, no matter what stage, so don't feel guilty. Look how many people are pulling for you! Rebuilding trust is a painful rollercoaster ride, so don't forget to pat yourself on the back for how far you've come esp. when the funk comes. All your feelings are natural and are part of your healing, so good job having a little cry to move them through.