OW broke up with XH, now what??

[Augtan]

Thanks so much everyone, you are all sooo right! I am leaving him alone, gone dark yet again. But, how long? Until he responds and makes the first move?

I know that he is blaming me for the break up, at least I assume it. He blames me for everything else! Should I just periodicly do friend type stuff? Our daughter broke her arm last night, went by squad to the ER (D17 was with her), I didn't even speak to him about it, she talked to him. If that isn't dark, I don't know what is! D10 said he was crying when she talked to him earlier today. Who knows what is going on with him, I guess at this time I am not going to be the one he turns to. I understand why, he doesn't trust me, afraid I will say "told you so". I think once he realizes I am not going to react like that, things might change a little, not holding my breath!

Any thoughts are so helpful!