Hmm... Maybe that last line sounded bad! I mean't the marriage might be too far-gone.
I wanted to ask for opinions about an action I've considered. The W and OM both work at a university, and OM has a position of authority (though I'm not sure there is a clear line of authority between them anymore). I had considered filing an annonymous tip to the code-of-ethics hotline.
I've resisted this for two reasons. First, nobody there knew about their R, so any repercussions might have led to me being scrutinized and further damage to my R w/ W. But now there are people at the job who know. The second reason is that this action seems to go against the principles of personal growth and change that underlie DB, and I had even decided that I needed to let their affair run its course before I bought the books. Perhaps it's better to stay focused on how I interact with W and not being concerned with interfering?
Do any of you have opinions, experiences, advice to share?
