The great thing about this community is it help us to face and prepare for those demons. I have a couple more on the way.
C-bart, when is the retro? That gives me hope for your sitch but who knows what it going on in the mind of Mrs. Fog-land, aka Mrs. Bart. I am going through the D process in MO as well, but we haven taken a compltetely different approach..interesting how this stuff plays out.
Do you keep a journal to track changes in your W's behavior? I use to, I found it was a good way to keep a perspective on things, as well a good vehicle to vent.