Missherlove,
I’m doing ok, today has been hard I haven’t even wanted to get out of bed. However, I’ve gotten a lot of reading done.

H is coming over tomorrow so we can go over the money and see if we can budget enough to allow him to get his own place for a while. If we figure that it is possible, then I’m going to tell him I’ve changed my mind about selling the house, for the kid’s sake. I will tell him I think it’s too soon to be making such drastic steps that will negatively affect the kids and us. I don’t think he will like this, so I’m not sure how to act if he reacts negatively to this suggestion.


Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10