Hi SpinFree - First of all, sorry that I didn't see your post sooner, it has been one very busy week for me and I haven't looked at the forum in several days.
I found our ST on the aasect.org web site. (It's the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists.) Under "FOR THE PUBLIC", select "Locate a Professional", then pick your location. Not sure if this will help you find an ST in you area but you never know.
I did also look in the health care provider directory of my insurance plan at the time too. You also might try a Yellow Pages search in your area.