C-Bart,

Thanks. Being male and also having a job that requires me to solve problems all day doesn't help when you know you aren't supposed to try and solve the problem. smile

MSH,

I have read some where the mother has done stuff very similar to your W. Not at all saying I agree with it but it has happened.

You are right in staying out of it IMHO. It is up to your W to make the effort to mend the R with D13. I also agree with you that pride is probably a big factor in this.

I am sure pride will be a big factor with my W if she ever decides she regrets the actions she has taken.


M 33 | W 34 | Kids: S4, S3
M: 5/28/05
Bomb: 8/22/09
EA: 8/1/09 | PA 12/26/09
W L: 10/21/09
M L: 11/16/09 | 12/09 to file SA
W & Boys Move Out: 3/14/10