Kemper, I just missed her which was good, apparently after her and S9 got here around 2 she took a nap on the couch while he played his new PS3 game and D13 holed up in her room. It is just amazing to me how detatched she has become from her own children, I just don't get it. I read many sitches on these boards and I don't think that I have ever read one where the mother abandon's the kids the way my W has with our kids. She told me on the phone or when she was here this morning that she would like to have my S9 after church for a couple of hours tomorrow, I said okay, no problem. But there has been no confirmation with me and I asked S9 about tomorrow and he said that my W never said anything about it.
The other thing is that during the MC session on Wednesday, my W's counselor told her that she needs to be attempting to call D13 and or texting everyday to let D13 know she still cares about D13. Not once since then has she called, I suggested to my W that she call today to let D13 know that she was coming over, she said she would just hang up. I replied that I am staying out of it from now on, you need to deal with D13 directly.
My W's PRIDE is getting in the way of having any type of R with our D13, I don't see how she calls herself a "mother".
Sorry for the hijack....whoops.
Formerly "missherlove"
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Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.
