Thanks for the feedback everyone. I didn't look at it as trying to shame her but it probably came across that way.

Going to shake if off like dwinter82 said and move forward continuing to work on me and acting as if.

M 33 | W 34 | Kids: S4, S3
M: 5/28/05
Bomb: 8/22/09
EA: 8/1/09 | PA 12/26/09
W L: 10/21/09
M L: 11/16/09 | 12/09 to file SA
W & Boys Move Out: 3/14/10