I agree with what C-bart had to say about the A. However, she has been your best friend for a long time. To have that person say such cold and meanful comments is very hard to process. My W has said some of the same stuff, and because we still care about them, not asking what is wrong or trying to fix things is contrary to how most of us have acted during the course of the marriage. I have been guilty of these types of comments way to many times. Shake it off!!
