Yes it does, sweetie, and I think your W will continue to be a thorn in your side for as long as you have children & grandchildren between you. It is still too difficult (in all reality) to be able to let everything run off your back. I have knows D couples who are going on 15 or more years and it still grinds them down when the other one says or does something petty. I believe after some more time has passed that you will be able to rise above it, but she knows you already do that....where it pertains to "her" and I think that is why it is always about the boys. That is your weak link and she knows it. You can't help it b/c you love them. But, you'll get stronger in time b/c that is who you are! I don't want to be sitting her reading about something petty she did with the grandchildren, and it bumming you out!
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
