Here are some scenarios running through my head today:
BEST CASE SCENARIO #1: 1. Continuance Hearing: h doesn't show up demanding divorce, Judge agrees to allow continuance. 2. h agrees to go to c or at least give our marriage 6 more months. 3. we stay married
BEST CASE SCENARIO #2: 1. H comes to continuance wanting d, judge disagrees and allows continuance. 2. H comes to his senses 3. we stay married
WORST CASE SCENARIO #1: 1. H shows up at continuance demanding divorce yet judge allows continuance due to h's eradict mood swings 2. h files countersuit for d 3. i get d
WORST CASE SCENARIO #2 1. H come to continuance demanding d judge says no 2. 2 weeks later h is continually hounding me for d 3. I break under his harrasment and sign off on d
WORSE CASE SCENARIO #3: 1. h demands d at continuance, judge agrees to d 2. i submit dismissal 3. h must refile for d get about 3 more months as he works d through system 4. h spends tons of money on d like I have 5. all property split 50/50 even house 6. boys may or may not have to visit their dad more
Any of these scenarios could come to play the first week of November when we go to the continuance hearing. I'm in a tizzy trying to figure out which one I will do of the worst case scenarios (though best case scenario #2 would be the ONE I'd choose!!!!)! I could choose #3 but am afraid my h will sue for more custody of the boys...more than I'm giving now...though if we have to revert back to state visitation that is BIG since my h would get 30 days in the summer versus the 3 weeks he has now, more time at Christmas too.
