Yes, some quality time is better than no time at all...that's what my h says. He says at least I see them one day ever 2 weeks and that's better than my dad did for me! He saw his dad last month for the first time in 35 years! Yeah, big difference there!
You are right can't change him but it's so frustrating. I guess I need to change my perspective on what I see as h's time with the kids. What frustrates me really is that my standard is not being met! That's not a nice way for me to treat h. He's doing the best he can. He's not me and I can't expect him to act like me.
