[quote]But a spouse who walks away should not expect to be privy to what she/he walked away from. That is your boundary to place, GW. If she has the same access to you as she always did b/c you let her have it, that's a problem you are creating for yourself. You are letting her cake eat and you don't want to do that. /quote]
Ok I get that, and yes this is going to sound weak, but what if she hasn't walked away? She hasn't left and until the last couple of days before the trip and the trip it did seem she was trying. Maybe I am making excuses for her, but I just want to ensure I am clearly communicating what is going on here. Part of me worries that it is the stress of the funeral situation that is throwing things haywire, but that is probably wishful thinking... I really don't know. Or since she was emotionally left, it is irrelevant, she has really walked away already?
M39 W41 Two children WAW bomb dropped 11/7/09 Piecing Aug 10 - Nov 10 No longer piecing...Nov 10 Separation Jan 11 EA ends again Feb 11 Piecing attempt #2, Mar 11
