You are right, it is what I would I do and I am very independent that way...guess my first reaction was that contacting here would (a) be easiest and (b) well give me a chicken crap, BS reason to contact her which I should not be doing

IF she wants to talk tonight (big IF), I'll tell her about the dog. I'm sure she will say why didn't you call me, and I'll just answer that I had it all covered and she has enough things to worry about these days with the funeral today. Sound about right?

M39 W41
Two children
WAW bomb dropped 11/7/09
Piecing Aug 10 - Nov 10
No longer piecing...Nov 10
Separation Jan 11
EA ends again Feb 11
Piecing attempt #2, Mar 11