Where in the world did that come from !!!

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I'm not sure what boundaries I can set here, we have been physically separated since she left and she seems to want no contact with me at all. Only thing I can see is maybe telling her I won't have all her stuff in the house, but that will probably drive her further away.

Further away than what? Spending the night with another man? You know what to do. Tell her this: "I know that you spent the night with OM last night. You have 4 days to get the remainder of your things out of my house. Whatever is left behind after day 4 will be packed away to a charity." And that's it. No arguing allowed, Blownaway. You have nothing to discuss with her other than the terms of you getting her things out of your way. That is the boundary you set.

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