So do you know which H is going to show up when you talk?

I doubt it. Plus your communicating with him is actually pushing him further away.

You are right that he doesn't know what he wants, so don't play into him.
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just stupid that all he really needs to do is talk to me...
I think you need to talk to him. He doesn't want that. You need to 180 that.

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