Where in the world did that come from !!!

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Greek & RW, thanks. In Australia there is just a 1 year separation required for D. We've been nearly six months and she has previously indicated that's what she wants to do.

W really got lucky last nite. D17 decided she was going to stay the night at the party. She texted W and told her that, then me as well.

So W gets to spend the night with OM, then go get D17 round 9am, what a great Mum she is to the kids eh!!! I know she stayed because I've just been down the shop and have to pass BIL's where she is 'living' - no car, will still be outside OM's house.

I'm not sure what boundaries I can set here, we have been physically separated since she left and she seems to want no contact with me at all. Only thing I can see is maybe telling her I won't have all her stuff in the house, but that will probably drive her further away.

I think I will have to confront her soon about it though. As everyone here says Cheaters always Lie. She is lying to the kids & to me and that's something I won't stand for.