RW and Greek are so right, take your time to answer, only give the basic information, use that ansaphone and txt to your advantage, think how you feel when she doesnt phone, you wonder, well it works both ways, ok youre doing this for you but what the heck its a bonus it will bug her..
Go read some more of the threads it will give you more insight into how some of us deal with things and its all different for different circumstances. If she is going to continue this EA you need to start setting boundaries to respect yourself if nothing else.
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