Since the bomb in April, we have had 3-4 R talks. I am not having R talks with her other than those 3-4 that were spread out since the bomb. In fact, we had none of those talks from early May until Oct when things seemed better. From May-Oct, I db'd my butt off and acted like a detached and confident friend. It had NO affect, which seems consistent with MLC.
The only communication I have with her now is related to kids, $ or information to complete the disclosures in the D proceeding. Other than that, I do my own thing and hang out with the kids. She wants to be alone, so be it. As much as I can give her that and live under the same roof, I am giving that to her.
