So tough this morning, resisting sending something. Had a subordinate get a DUI last night, one D complaining she isn't feeling well, and a dog limping all over the house. I so would love to talk to her and connect over all these sudden issues like we always would in the past.
This is today, GW. And today, if you want a sounding board, you will (GAL) call a friend to tell him about it, or reconnect with a sibling to share. W is not the only person on the planet who you can make a connection with. Although I certainly understand that she is the only one on the planet you want to share with now - increasingly b/c she is unavailable to you. Something for you to keep in mind - hint, hint!
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Guess I need to stay made about her unwillingness to share with me a darn thing about this funeral trip.
Why are you mad? She doesn't want to tell you about it. OK. Next. You no longer expend energy or emotion on what she will or won't do. You have many, many other things to do today.
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And I did set-up voice mail and I turned the ringer off of the phone! Oh sorry, had it on silence, didn't look at phone for a while to see you called or texted. I can try. Gosh this is going to be hard
No, GW...don't explain that the phone was on silent. Don't explain a thing. Don't fill in the blanks. Let her wonder why every time she calls the phone goes to VM. 'I wonder why he can't take my call? Hmmm...is he busy? Doing what? Or is someone there and he can't talk to me?'
Mystery.
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