I have been reading you sich today, I am up to where you get served the D papers. My only comment is that you said that you were NC but you seem to be telling her everyday that she has to R or D. She picked D. If she is in MLC that seems like an obvious choice by her. You are causing her pain(so she thinks) so she has to get rid of the pain(you).
I will keep reading from there but that was only 11 days ago.
Keep busy with your kids, they are cute! Sorry for the 2x4.
