Moving back in

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I've been told by others that this might not be the way because both w and I have participated in this.. the difference, IMHO, is that W wants to quit/D and I am actively working on reconciling my M...

Bingo. Coach never said he didn't contribute his share of mess to the M and resulting separation. He said - with his actions - that he was not the one who wanted the D. Greek wanted the D and he would not take any responsibility for my action on that route. I had to twist in the wind all by myself on that one - and I'm so grateful that he didn't rescue me from it. It was key to our reconciliation - the ownership.

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