Set up that voice mail NOW. Wait at least an hour before answering any text messages. And only answer text messaged questions. Like if she tm's just info but no question, then no response needed from you. And if you are going to answer a question in a text...wait at least an hour. Click all - ALL - of her calls to voice mail. Then you can listen to them for questions that you will answer in a text...later.
You are just so busy with your Life, gosh - you just can't get to those calls and texts right away.
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