My story, what to do next.

[digger22]

I have a feeling that OM is someone she works with. He started working their about 2 mo. before she dropped the bomb. He is married, but they work together closely. Her sister works in same place and says she doesn't see him as a threat, but to me it makes sense. I have absolutely no evidence, just a strong gut feeling. No emails, I don't have access to her tm. I will ask her sister if she can keep an eye on for me.

Another story, couple months before bomb, she says we are too different, I need a girl like X to be with. Initially after bomb, I say that I don't want X I want you. Gradually I let her know that I am interested in X and I do find her attractive. Couple weeks ago me and X take her 2 kids and my 3 kids to indoor playground for a couple hours of fun. Completely innocent, just casual get together to let our kids who are friends with each other play together.

Get home after playground day and S tells W that X and kids were there. Immediately she goes off about how I want to be X's kids dad and X is a slut and I better be protected. I respond calmly that I haven't done anything with X and we just had a nice day letting the kids play together. She says that she needs us to be D or at least everyone should know we are getting a D before I do anything like that.