When you say you're "not moving", are you referring to just laying still for a while?
Otherwise, I agree with Lotus; why give up on the apt.? What are you going to do if you don't get your own place?
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement