sandi, woke up early just now...heard wife in other room!!! discusted and sickened..She's having phone sex!! with the guy from south america. I did suspect but Wished and thought it was not true. What ??to do now??? gonna take a xanax and breathe. DON"T KNOW WHAT TO DO NOW????? this is sickening!! HELP
OK, I know people here think I'm a soft touch, but this is really beyond the pale.
Why on Earth would you just sit there and let her do that to you? She either didn't know you could hear her, or didn't care that you could hear her.
I'm not saying that you should have done anything foolish or dangerous. You could have walked into the room, told her to put her clothes on and find someplace else to sleep for the night. At worst, you could have left and found someplace to rest and clear your head.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement