Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[Gnosis]

SD, you're letting your mind reading get the better of you again. So let me offer an alternative "mind read" on S12. Maybe he was tired, worried about school report... heck he could be lovesick over some girl in his class. YOU DON'T KNOW. Don't pin everything on her. Everyone has an off day, your S12 is not an exception.

The same applies to your wife. If she's outta sight... then force her outta your mind. I know its not easy. As for her doing something drastic... what worse could she do that she has not already done? Nothing.

So, let's look at the worst that could happen:

1) She sends you nude pictures of her and some OM.
2) She sends you nasty text messages and emails
3) She takes another restraining order out on you
4) She withholds access to the kids from you
5) She goes the nasty divorce route

For (1) and (2) So what? Even if she doubles her efforts of rubbing [censored] in your face... Who cares? The damage has already been done. Nothing new there. Just goes to prove how unworthy she is of you.

For (3) Um... been there done that.

For (4) and (5) that's why you got yourself a hardass men's rights attorney. That's what he's there for... to protect you and look out for your best interests. This is why you have armed yourself and provided your L with all the nastygrams she has sent you.

Use your time constructively. As I told you in the "alt" prepare your GAL activities now, create a schedule for when you get back of what YOU are going to be doing.

It's when you get back that the real DB'ing starts. Right now you're in a holding pattern. Don't waste the time given you.