She was asked to think about and consider setting some boundaries, probably in order to start rebuilding trust.
She hasn't said anything yet; maybe she's waiting until our next session? For my part, I've pulled back a little bit; I know she's noticed.
Also, I've talked to all of the people in my circle and informed them of my decision to stop discussing our relationship and our journey with them. They all get it, and a couple of them have promised to help keep me accountable.
I just looked at my cell phone history; the only person I've called in the past two days is an old college friend that I recently reconnected with.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement