And yes - that's totally bogus and unfair and what about Miss Someone and yes that's absolutely right. But still. My sex play is just good wholesome adult fun; hers is disgusting whore-stuff.
My inner feminist is screeching "wtf?????" Double standard much?
RE: what Gypsy (I think) said about kids and perceived adult boundaries. When I read that, I thought, "That is an interesting point to consider." But I wonder at what age they start to be able to connect the dots like that ("Daddy doesn't say 'how high' when mom says 'jump'") as opposed to "Doesn't *anybody* want us???"
This is such a stone bitch of a conundrum because part of me totally agrees with Rob, et al, about standing your ground and ceasing to enable her irresponsible and selfish decisions. But then there's a part of me that dies a little bit when I imagine kidlets picking up on (or, worse, hearing directly) any interaction between their parents that goes like, "You take them." "No, it's your time; you take them." Wash, rinse, repeat, regurgitate.
Do whatever you can live with, dude. (((SP)))
"Show me a completely smooth operation and I'll show you someone who's covering mistakes. Real boats rock." -- Frank Herbert
