Yes, I've given up the pursuit of my h. Not worth it. He continues to maintain that I'm the problem and there is no talking to him. We had gone to counseling but the counselor refused to see him back because he did not disclose his conditions for what he was really willing to do to save the marriage...he lied when he said he was willing to do ANYTHING to save it. That lie lasted 3 days.
He says this is all my fault...that I caused this divorce.
Now we are going to the final hearing and I'm going to push to get half of the $5,000 I have spent this past year trying to make this work. I think it is only fair since it became his 'divorce' too back in Dec 02...he just failed to mention it to me.
Thanks for your help. Be praying for me, I have to see him tonight at our son's soccer practice. I'm dreading it.
