No, I didn't ask for the divorce. I've been piecing since august but fighting the divorce for a year now. My h says that he no longer wants to be married to me and that he wants the divorce. I tried to get an extension but since he has to agree to it I can't submit it. I tried to put in a dismissal but he says he'll just turn around and put it back in. I've been on this board since June 03. About 3 weeks ago he finally admitted that he wanted to be married but because I didn't change and won't change he wants the divorce now. He says he has no time to wait anymore for me to fix myself. Even though he admits that we have only been trying for 2 months to really fix our marriage. He says since this is what I originally requested then this is what I'm going to get. I asked for it! It's so sad because I've been trying to fix this since 02 but he now admits that he was ready for the divorce 30 days after he moved out in Dec 02. Apparently I've only been hurting myself this entire time. I wonder though why he kept calling me to go out...it must have just for a piece.
I'm so sad but there is no changing his mind. And because there is so much at stake (our house, the equity, visitation, etc) I'm going to have to protect myself by going forward with the divorce. He's already signed everything over to me in the final decree...it only lacks the judges signature.
