Glad to hear from you--I was getting worried!!! Hopefully your H will decide the marriage is important and will work on himself. YOU have come so far, though! I admire you for your courage!!!
I miss being married, but I am happier being by myself than being in an unhealthy marriage. My ex and I still communicate, but it is easier since I am in another state and don't worry about running into Ex and ow in the grocery store.