Upside so good to see you back posting you are right - my therapist also said to explain to kds about addiction and that dad is sick he loves them and its not their fault so im starting to explain more them and that feels right
snodderly thanks I also believe xh will contact them again at some point I hope he does bottom out I cant see how things can get much worse for him--but from what his mother said he is complaining 24/7 saying poor me but he continues to run to another state..maybe her family will be the ones to save them..give xh a job and make him happy
its out of my handds its probably better that xh isnt here if he is this bad this way the kids dont have to be around him and her
Forward--thanks for your support
I wonder the same will xh ever come through this I guess we have to prepare emotionally that they may not that we may be the sole provider emothionally and otherwise for our ourselves and kids we can do it we been soing it right
peace
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