Upside
so good to see you back posting
you are right -
my therapist also said to explain to kds about addiction and that dad is sick
he loves them and its not their fault
so im starting to explain more them and that feels right

snodderly thanks
I also believe xh will contact them again at some point
I hope he does bottom out I cant see how things can get much worse for him--but from what his mother said he is complaining 24/7 saying poor me
but he continues to run to another state..maybe her family will be the ones to save them..give xh a job and make him happy

its out of my handds
its probably better that xh isnt here if he is this bad
this way the kids dont have to be around him and her

Forward--thanks for your support

I wonder the same
will xh ever come through this
I guess we have to prepare emotionally that they may not
that we may be the sole provider emothionally and otherwise for our ourselves and kids
we can do it we been soing it right

peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow