Hey SP..

Her time. Her choices.

How far overboard will you go? When she says jump, do you still ask "How high?"

Excuses.

Stop making it about the kids, it's not. It's about you. They're the shield for your hurt.

Doesn't matter if they cry at night. Own your pain, sense of betrayal. Don't put it on the kids.

Kids need balance. Not to see one parent running around like a chicken with its head cut off.

Because that's what they'll learn. Dad has no boundaries. Dad will quit a job, cancel anything to come to the rescue.

Take the long term view.

Or be a puppet.