Yep foggyland is where they live and as RW said they even inhabit it occasionally when they do come back but it gets less foggy over time..
Definitely agree with the boundary of not taking OW to therapy, or you could say its upsetting DIL and being unthoughtful. Although as you have very little control over him he may resent this and chuck his toys out of the pram, so be prepared to duck.
Personally as he now sees fit not to hide his other R, I wouldnt worry too much about what other people see or hear. Just dont get into conversations about it as it can make it to uncomfortable later with people having too much knowledge.
Not a lot to say today sorry but keep GAL and smiling how ever hard it might seem.
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