Kerry, can you refresh my memory? I think I recall that guy but last time I checked, if it's the same one, he was sooo "NOT around". (Is he the one who went off the deep end?)
I dont think LostPhil went off the deep end - he may have already been there. The similarity was that he would always defend and argue his way to posters instead of actually taking their advice. He had a good chance to save his marriage as his W was not in any A.