Looking for Advice

[gutwrenching]

Question for those that know at least a little about Facebook. Right now, I have a pending friend request out there for my W. Been there a long time, she doesn't deny it, but she won't accept it. I am starting to think that if I want to continue to send the message of no pursuit, that I cancel the request. Not sure she would notice, but she might. Or do I just leave it there because by canceling the request also implies that I as thinking about it. So the other part of me says just leave it alone.

What I am really struggling with right now is how to reply to the e-mail that she claims she is going to send me to tell me if she is going to call or not, which I know she won't...