triggers...P, I couldn't watch ANYONE sharing affection or sexual relations (wait that sounds wrong) on TV or in movies for 6 months without imagining WH and OW. So I get it!

I have triggers daily still. Let's see one of them today was the smell of rain on the deck-WHAM-brought back to last April when WH had moved out but insisted on coming back to the house to work on something. It was right after an MC appointment about co-parenting...it was after this day that I had to declare no contact.

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004