we get the benefit of time back. Time to take it easy, heal, mend, and decide what we want to do. We get patience.
I think the limited contact with my WH lately has helped me relax today. (Yeah, a few days ago I had fear but today I feel calm). no contact is not fighting. So maybe there is a correlation there...don't fight and you will become patient.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
