I know this sounds pathetic but I am not sure I can settle for baby steps. He has been tough for over a year now and I have been struggling to deal with this. Plus I am not even sure this is what it is. I have self diagnosed him. He could just be a mean son of a gun but I must admit that he sounds like many other men on this forum.
Thanks so much for talking to me. I am exhausted but feel better knowing there are others who understand!