I've hit a wall.. Now what?

[MarkG]

Sounds good to me! You'll get his attention, but the part I'm starting to wonder about is how long you wait before giving in to the attention. Like I said before, I've got the results a few times but then jumped the gun on being needy. I suppose my problem was when she left OM I didn't wait for her to initiate the contact, but I'm wondering how much inattention is too much with her BPD. The main effect of BPD is thinking your loved ones don't care about you so this adds a little more apprehension when it comes to me letting things be with her. I just lately decided to fully give in to the advice since my way isn't working, have yet to see how the results will work.