That is my exact situation. It's why I'm kind of going dim instead of dark. But also I'm stuck here. So I need to do something different and see if it helps. I'm also getting resentful of getting dumped on but not being able to discuss my issues, concerns, or the elephant in the room. This makes me intiate a pointless relationship talk. Sometimes these talks seem to make headway. Other times they cause resentment problems the next day. My counselor does not believe someone who is saying he feels like he may be going crazy is in a position to have any talks, even if he willingly participates or initiates them. I find this confusting, because then what is the point of his own therapy? I'm just trying to get out of the way in the near future and GAL and hope it spins itself out. The whole situation would be laughable if not so sad.
